[ E ] D o – I t – Y o u r s e l f
i used to live with my sister before, but since she is now married and moved out from our rent house, so here i am.. living alone since the last 6months. so far, i managed to settle everything all by myself, of course with a lot of help from my parents, siblings and my boyfriend, Zuhrin 🙂
living alone in an apartment is NOT easy. i have to:
- pay house rent
- pay bills
- pay car loan + PTPTN
- clean the house
- buy home appliances
all by myself.. and luckily i have Zuhrin, who always be there when i need him 😀
i must admit, it is hard to live alone and do everything by myself. but i always tell myself that i have to keep moving forward. till when do i have to depend on others? sooner or later, i have to live my own life, have my own family and before all that happen, i have to prepare myself. i can afford to take care of myself for now, but can i afford to take care my own family in the future?
i appreciate all that i have now even more since i earn money from my own effort. always thank Allah for everything that i have now. always remember to send money to Mak & Ayah every month & give ‘sedekah’ to masjid and people who need it. please remind me if i forgot any of the above..
how about u? have u tried Do-It-Yourself in ur life? till when should we depend to our parents & family? isn’t it time for us to help them instead?
if we are working, i think we should do our work as best as we can. PLEASE … don’t sit at the office and surf the internet more than 80% of our office hour. then simply wait for the end of the month to get the salary. (this might sound like what i did) but at least, we should contribute something to our group and the company where we work, right? don’t get ‘gaji buta’ every month..